Monday, 19 August 2024

CHANGING AND DIFFICULT TIMES

 

It’s official! The arthritis in my hands – or more specifically the fingers of my right hand – has been X-rayed and diagnosed, and I’ve seen a physiotherapist. I’ll skip the details, but I am now armed with tips from the brilliant Sally on how to cope, new gadgets to help me open tins etc. and the joyful knowledge that I can have as many tea breaks as I like when gardening! 


Gardening – or more specifically, using secateurs and weeding, as well as typing and playing the piano are three of the most painful activities in my daily life. I haven’t including housework, because my wonderful husband is now taking over some of these tasks. And being me, I still get out the hoover and battle with cleaning the bath despite the pain! You can’t change the habits of a lifetime, although you can try to adapt.

For the typing, I’m back to using my ‘clicky’ keyboard, which for some reason is the most comfortable to use as well as making me feel I’m progressing. (The photo shows it with all its lights on, but the novelty of that has worn off!)

After about five minutes I find a rhythm, and the really painful joints have decided to comply. They’ve had to, as I’ve been making great progress with the third book in the last few months, and it’s nearly finished. Perhaps I keep repeating this final phrase, but it’s important to get the ending right and I’ve had to re-write some of it.

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For many of us this has been a difficult year for all kinds of reasons. Here in the garden the seasons have been a bit haywire and the temperature has gone up and down like a yo-yo! The Dahlias have all except one been very late to flower, but they are always a joy. Another joy has been the deep blue of my hydrangea ‘cuttings’ which have matured into fine plants.


In the greenhouse the tomatoes are taking a very long time to ripen, and as usual I have grown far too many plants. The bonus of doing this is, I hope, that I will be able to freeze them for the winter - if and when they ripen!


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READING: I have two recommendations for you. The first is 'Munich Wolf' by Rory Clements. This is set in Bavaria in the 1930s, an unusual thriller about a policeman who is also a member of the Nazi party. I was both fascinated and horrified, hugely informed about the place and the period, and completely engrossed. 

The second recommendation is 'The Dentist' by Tim Sullivan. This is part of a series, but can be read on its own.  A gripping crime thriller, it features DS George Cross of Somerset and Avon Police, a fascinating and beautifully portrayed protagonist who proves to be a challenge to the police hierarchy because he is on the spectrum. He is a loner, he is close only to his father, Raymond, and his social skills leave a lot to be desired. The author handles the difficulty of portraying such a character with ease. I thoroughly enjoyed it and highly recommend it.

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FINALLY, after years of thinking about it, I’ve extended my writing to something a little more gritty and made a first post on the platform ‘Substack’. You may or may not like or agree with what I say, but here’s the link if you want to read it. Let me know what you think, if you do!

https://pruestopford.substack.com/p/right-or-wrong

I hope the rest of the summer is kind to us and that we will find time to relax and enjoy some spare moments in gardens, parks, or peaceful places where we can wind down. Look after yourselves!